Being accused of domestic violence can be overwhelming, frightening, and life-altering. In New Jersey, these accusations are treated very seriously and can result in both criminal charges and restraining orders. Whether the claim is true, exaggerated, or entirely false, how you respond in the immediate aftermath can significantly impact the outcome of your case.
At The Cintron Firm, we assist individuals throughout New Jersey in navigating domestic violence allegations with experienced legal guidance.
Steps To Take After Being Accused of Domestic Violence
1. Remain Calm and Avoid Retaliation
Emotions often run high in domestic disputes. However, it is crucial to stay calm and avoid reacting with anger or aggression. Do not confront the accuser, attempt to explain your side directly, or retaliate in any way. Anything you say or do can be used against you in court or during police investigations.
2. Do Not Violate Any Restraining Orders
In many domestic violence cases, a temporary restraining order (TRO) is issued quickly. Violating this order—even unintentionally—can lead to criminal contempt charges and potential jail time. Read the order carefully, follow all instructions, and avoid all contact with the alleged victim.
If you are served with a TRO, you will have the opportunity to attend a final restraining order (FRO) hearing where both parties will present their case. Having legal representation at this stage is essential.
3. Speak to a New Jersey Domestic Violence Attorney Immediately
Hiring a qualified criminal defense attorney in New Jersey is the most important step you can take. Domestic violence accusations involve complex legal issues, and without a strategic defense, you could face:
- Criminal charges for assault, harassment, stalking, or terroristic threats
- Permanent restraining orders
- Loss of custody or visitation rights
- Employment consequences
- A permanent criminal record
4. Gather Evidence and Witnesses
Evidence can help disprove false allegations, provide context, or support your version of events in court. Start documenting everything related to the alleged incident. This may include the following:
- Text messages, emails, or social media interactions
- Photos or videos from the incident
- Call logs or voicemails
- Eyewitnesses who can provide testimony
5. Avoid Talking About the Case Publicly
Do not post anything about your case on social media or discuss it with friends, coworkers, or anyone other than your attorney. Anything shared online or in conversations could be misinterpreted and used as evidence against you.
6. Understand the Long-Term Impact
A domestic violence conviction or final restraining order in New Jersey can have serious consequences, including:
- Ineligibility for certain jobs or professional licenses
- Loss of firearm rights
- Immigration consequences for non-citizens
- Damage to your personal and professional reputation
Take Action Immediately – Contact the Cintron Firm
At The Cintron Firm, LLC, we offer more than 14 years of experience representing individuals throughout New Jersey facing serious legal matters—including domestic violence charges. Attorney Mark Cintron has served as a prosecutor and possesses extensive courtroom experience, giving clients a powerful advocate both in and out of court.
If you’ve been accused of domestic violence, don’t wait to protect your rights. Contact our office online or call us at 201-791-1333 or 917-494-5695 to schedule a confidential consultation.

